<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post3551118105982232220..comments</id><updated>2011-01-12T17:28:20.822-08:00</updated><category term='Quite Random'/><category term='Rants and Raves'/><category term='Story Time'/><title type='text'>Comments on The Ninthlobby - Friends and Dreams: The Attraction Checklist</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/feeds/3551118105982232220/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html'/><author><name>Ninthlobby: Shan</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04569488602800366501</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Okwq-l80-FQ/TxO9p2tuxyI/AAAAAAAAASU/Y-Wm09hqHL0/s220/DSC_0039.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>4</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-3284901521075616224</id><published>2011-01-12T17:28:20.822-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-12T17:28:20.822-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Dear Envy;
You shouldn&amp;#39;t relate something some...</title><content type='html'>Dear Envy;&lt;br /&gt;You shouldn&amp;#39;t relate something someone has posted with there real life unless you know them in person. Because when you don&amp;#39;t know that person you may make the untrue assumption that they &amp;quot;Judging from your writing I&amp;#39;m not surprised how you don&amp;#39;t get laid at all&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I happen to know first hand he has a girlfriend and does get laid. After all, I am his girlfriend and I sleep in the same bed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My tip to you, if you want to make fun of or talk down on someone make sure your facts are straight.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/3284901521075616224'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/3284901521075616224'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html?showComment=1294882100822#c3284901521075616224' title=''/><author><name>Ashley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12274631684807969539</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-3551118105982232220' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/posts/default/3551118105982232220' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-22096329'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-2827133863646802346</id><published>2011-01-06T00:55:35.741-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-06T00:55:35.741-08:00</updated><title type='text'>You seem to be pretty racist towards Asians, judgi...</title><content type='html'>You seem to be pretty racist towards Asians, judging from your writing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;D&amp;#39;ya mind expounding on that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Judging from your writing I&amp;#39;m not surprised how you don&amp;#39;t get laid at all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Boy, if you want to learn how attraction is you need to put yourself out there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Can&amp;#39;t sit there like a wallflower and think that by doing so you know people...tsk tsk, that&amp;#39;s not the way.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/2827133863646802346'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/2827133863646802346'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html?showComment=1294304135741#c2827133863646802346' title=''/><author><name>Envy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12119441784224201743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-3551118105982232220' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/posts/default/3551118105982232220' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-487552748'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-3355232209904980021</id><published>2011-01-04T00:39:45.855-08:00</published><updated>2011-01-04T00:39:45.855-08:00</updated><title type='text'>You haven&amp;#39;t been laid by a chick you actually ...</title><content type='html'>You haven&amp;#39;t been laid by a chick you actually dig nor get a girlfriend you actually like. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&amp;#39;s how this checklist reads like.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/3355232209904980021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/3355232209904980021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html?showComment=1294130385855#c3355232209904980021' title=''/><author><name>Envy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12119441784224201743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-3551118105982232220' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/posts/default/3551118105982232220' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-487552748'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-455551213470623343</id><published>2010-12-19T21:58:53.751-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-19T21:58:53.751-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Many people (women, especially) are attracted to n...</title><content type='html'>Many people (women, especially) are attracted to non-superficial qualities. These qualities are:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Confidence&lt;br /&gt;2. Charisma&lt;br /&gt;3. Competence in every day life...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are other qualities which can help a lot like verbal facility, whether you are good with your words and can make a person laugh or draw their attention. Knowing how to express yourself in an attractive manner counts a lot in life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things like that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The checklist you listed is very superficial and unhelpful. Reading your post makes me think of a little kid that doesn&amp;#39;t have a grasp for the more subtle things in life and therefore relies on cues like people&amp;#39;s faces and such. Really shallow thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&amp;#39;s when you think like a little kid that you perceive the people around you as objects. Once you truly grow up you grow out of that. You learn to empathize and understand other people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It looks like you don&amp;#39;t know much when it comes to what actually attracts the opposite sex, if you ask me. Sounds like you&amp;#39;ve never really dated much girls in your life either. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A lot of the qualities which attract people are intangible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Until you understand that you would be stuck in your dead end dating life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hmmm, you put personality and intelligence on #5. That&amp;#39;s pretty sad.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/455551213470623343'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/3551118105982232220/comments/default/455551213470623343'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html?showComment=1292824733751#c455551213470623343' title=''/><author><name>Envy</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12119441784224201743</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.ninthlobby.com/2009/03/attraction-checklist.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6809397229388554340.post-3551118105982232220' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6809397229388554340/posts/default/3551118105982232220' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-487552748'/></entry></feed>
